fsmonitor: use pthread_cond_timedwait for cookie wait
The cookie wait in with_lock__wait_for_cookie() uses an infinite pthread_cond_wait() loop. The existing comment notes the desire to switch to pthread_cond_timedwait(), but the routine was not available in git thread-utils. On certain container or overlay filesystems, inotify watches may succeed but events are never delivered. In this case the daemon would hang indefinitely waiting for the cookie event, which in turn causes the client to hang. Replace the infinite wait with a one-second timeout using pthread_cond_timedwait(). If the timeout fires, report an error and let the client proceed with a trivial (full-scan) response rather than blocking forever. Signed-off-by: Paul Tarjan <github@paulisageek.com> Signed-off-by: Junio C Hamano <gitster@pobox.com>